In BDSM spaces, few terms carry as much weight — or as much misunderstanding — as CNC , short for Consensual Non-Consent . The phrase itself sounds contradictory, which is exactly why clear education matters. Let’s start with the foundation: CNC is consent first. Always. Without consent, discussion, negotiation, and boundaries, there is no CNC — only harm. What CNC Actually Means Consensual Non-Consent describes negotiated scenes or dynamics where partners agree ahead of time

In BDSM spaces, 24/7  is one of the most misunderstood terms in the entire vocabulary. It does not  mean constant sex. It does not  mean nonstop activity. And it absolutely does not  mean the Dominant controls every breath a submissive takes. So let’s break it down properly. What 24/7 Actually Refers To At its core, 24/7  describes a relationship structure , not a behavior. A 24/7 dynamic means that the power exchange is always in effect , even when nothing visibly “kinky” i