Steps for Dominants and Submissives Last week, I discussed why vetting matters before placing trust in someone within the BDSM community. Vetting is how we slow the process down long enough to look beyond titles, profile descriptions, chemistry, promises, and first impressions. It gives us time to examine whether someone’s behavior supports what they claim about themselves. This week, I want to take that conversation one step further. What does vetting actually look like? Vet