The Conversation Too Many People Skip By T.L. Duncan Negotiation is often called the foundation of a BDSM scene. Most experienced practitioners understand the importance of discussing limits, expectations, medical concerns, safewords, hard limits, soft limits, and desired outcomes before anyone ever picks up a flogger or fastens a cuff. Aftercare receives just as much attention. Blankets, water, snacks, reassurance, cuddling, quiet conversation, or simply sitting together unt