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The Pause
Three weeks passed before Vivienne introduced the blindfold. She did not produce it in the middle of a scene or hold it against Elias’s eyes while asking whether he trusted her. She placed it on the kitchen table beside the leather notebook, where he could examine it without pressure. It was simple. Black fabric. Soft padding. An adjustable strap. Nothing threatening. Elias picked it up and turned it over in his hands. “You’ve never worn one?” Vivienne asked. “No.” “Does the

T.L. Duncan
Sep 2010 min read


Scene Debriefing:
The Conversation Too Many People Skip By T.L. Duncan Negotiation is often called the foundation of a BDSM scene. Most experienced practitioners understand the importance of discussing limits, expectations, medical concerns, safewords, hard limits, soft limits, and desired outcomes before anyone ever picks up a flogger or fastens a cuff. Aftercare receives just as much attention. Blankets, water, snacks, reassurance, cuddling, quiet conversation, or simply sitting together unt

T.L. Duncan
Jul 136 min read
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