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The Conversation
Short Story Sunday: The Conversation September Consent Series — Part One The message arrived at seven minutes past six. I’m outside. Vivienne read it twice, although there was nothing complicated about the three words. She set her phone on the kitchen counter and looked around the room one final time. Two glasses waited beside a pitcher of water. A leather notebook rested between them, closed, with a pen placed neatly across its cover. The candles remained unlit. The curtains

T.L. Duncan
18 hours ago8 min read


Low-Effort Messages
There are few things more predictable on a BDSM site than a profile explaining, in plain language, what kind of communication is welcome—and someone immediately sending the exact kind of message the profile says will be ignored. Sometimes it is only two words: Greetings Madame Sometimes it is the timeless classic: Hi how are you doing Sometimes it skips the inconvenience of a greeting altogether: May I please have a face pic that doesn't include a mask? Allan And sometimes it

T.L. Duncan
7 days ago8 min read


Maintaining Scene Safety
BDSM is often described through power, control, surrender, discipline, pain, service, trust, and desire. All of those things may be part of a scene, but none of them should exist without safety. Safety does not make BDSM less intense. It makes intensity possible. A scene may be strict, sensual, playful, ceremonial, emotional, painful, quiet, or deeply intimate. But a scene should never be careless. The more powerful the exchange, the more responsibility is required from every

T.L. Duncan
Jun 17 min read
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