When Persistence Becomes Pressure There is a particular kind of message that some people mistake for devotion. The repeated check-in after being told no. The “just seeing if you changed your mind.” The second profile after the first one was ignored, blocked, or rejected. The email after the site message went unanswered. The “I’m still interested” sent as if interest alone is supposed to override a boundary. Some people want to believe that persistence proves sincerity. It doe